From the Gabbai of the Bear Stearns daily mincha minyan...
From: Savit, Robert
Sent: Friday, May 30, 2008 11:11 AM
To: Goldenberg, Avi
Subject: Bear Minyan - Hatzlacha vBracha
To the Bear Stearns Minyan, one last time:
After two great years at the Bear, and having been observant for about the same amount of time, I have chosen to exit galus and the world of gashmius (at least temporarily) in order to immerse myself in the ruchnius that I hope to find at Ohr Somayach in eretz Yisroel. I had been planning to go learn at some point, and despite having had a potential opportunity to go over to JPMorgan, the events that took place in mid-March made my decision that much clearer. Not only has Hashem provided me with the ability to go learn but he has blessed me with a “scholarship" care of JPM.
The Bear mincha minyan was really my first regular minyan and it provided me with much inspiration. The whole concept was foreign to me. The idea that a few dozen men at a major financial institution would take time out of their busy schedules and express their gratitude to Hashem, in a conference room within the building no less, was a big motivator for me. Moreover, nobody was talking, rarely were there any cell phone interruptions, and some were even able to achieve serious kavanah. Thank you to everyone who davened for inspiring me with your tefillah.
While I sympathize with those who lost money and jobs, we know that everything happens for a reason and it will all work out for the best. That being said, the collapse of BSC provided a great deal of mussar to all who wish to see it. There are some employees who gave their heart and soul to the company for many years, and some lost thousands or even millions of dollars (Jimmy literally lost a billion!) – they learned the hard way that money is fleeting. Still there are others who were with the company for only a few months who will receive a nice severance package and have already accepted offers elsewhere at higher salaries. There are those, who because of the extraordinary amount of time that they spent at the office, missed out on many milestones (birthdays, weddings, etc.), and lost it all. And there are those who were just in the right place at the right time. And of course there are stories of everything in between. There are no accidents. Hashem is in charge of the world. Sometimes when we are in certain situations it is difficult to have a clear perspective. In the business world it is so easy to get caught up in the day to day and to lose sight of what really matters This experience has truly served to clarify for me the idea that the only "things" that are timeless are the mitzvahs that we do and the tzedakah that we give in olam hazeh. Bear Stearns will soon be a distant memory but hopefully this lesson will remain with us.
There is a famous story of an extraordinarily wealthy man who wrote two wills. When he passed away his children were instructed to immediately open will #1 and then 30 days later to open will #2. Will #1 indicated that the man’s last wish was to be buried in his favorite pair of socks. The chevra kadisha informed the children that this would not be possible. The children pleaded, informing them that their father was a very powerful man who had given a substantial amount of tzedakah throughout his life. They asked, “Do you know who our father is?” Still, the chevra kadisha told the children that it was not halachically permissible. They informed the children that the dead could only be buried in a white kittel. The children sadly buried their father unable to fulfill his final request. After 30 days had passed will #2 was read to the children. “By now children, you have buried me without my socks. I want you to realize that no matter how many millions of dollars you accumulate in your lifetime, you cannot even take your socks with you to the next world.”
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These are old stories but their messages are powerful. It is of course important to make a living and support a family but it is also important to learn Torah b’yom u b’layla, to treat others with respect, to be a Kiddush Hashem and to always act l’shaem shemayim. As I have been inspired by everyone at the minyan, and certainly affected by the events that have transpired at Bear, I hope that you are all inspired by the messages that Hashem sends us on a daily basis and that you continue to strive to achieve a true closeness to the Rabbeinu shel Olam.
Nachum and I had a brief conversation with our CEO, Alan Schwartz, in the elevator on the way to Mincha yesterday. We invited him to daven with us though we conveyed our feelings that maybe our prayers for the well-being of Bear Stearns had not been received in the way that a lot of people had hoped. He had a meeting to attend but he left us with some great mussar. He said something along the lines of ‘don’t worry fellas – your prayers are being answered – we just don’t know how.’ Now I don’t know if he has been meeting with a Rabbi over the past few months or if it was just the power of the pintele Yid but I thought it was a great attitude reflecting on what has no doubt been the most tragic part of his career. Hashem sends us messages all the time and from the most unexpected places.
A big hakores hatov to Andy on behalf of the entire minyan for all his hard work and for being our shaliach mitzvah. By the way, if you have noticed that Andy hasn’t been around as much lately it is because he has been spending his mornings learning in Yeshiva. Yafeh!
If you find yourself in ir HaKodesh and are in need of someone to send out minyan e-mails (this time for a fee of course), or if you just want to take a yeshiva bucher for a decent meal, please contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org. Hatzlacha vBracha!
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great letter. as an aside, that story about the socks is an urban legend.
It as going around yerushalayim a year or two ago about one of the Reichmans. It even made it into the papers. I checked with a grandson of the subject of the story and he told me though he had heard the story, it was not true.
A few weeks later I saw in the Haredi press that they mentioned that the story was made up.
Though the mussar in the story is still good even if it never happened.
My husband worked at Bear Stearns for 12 years before he quit in July so that we could make aliyah. It was a great place to work and he was an integral part of that minyan and knows most of the people mentioned in the letter. Just some public Hakorat Tov for Bear: last year when my daughter was critically ill they gave my husband carte blanche and he spent about 5 weeks at her bedside until Hashem completed his miracle and she began to recover. He got paid for all that time, without any question.
As I said, it was a great company and my husband was very sad to see them go under...
Where do I sign up for this cult?
Now you see why it's not called "DovBear Stearns"
anon 6:28 do you have to use language like that? can't you express yourself slightly more intelligently?
I davened at the Bear Minyan virtually every day when I was saying kaddish for my father, z'l.
I have tremendous hakoras hatov to the gabbaim and to Bear for facilitating the minyan.
It is very sad to see this great institution go.
MoC: Glad to see you're still around (the JBlogosphere hasn't declined that much ;-)
Sounds like the minyan was extremely important there.
The BSC minyan was amazing. The 5 day a week mincha and the frequent ma'ariv were open to the entire neighborhood (just tell security you are on Andy xxxx's list). Also, they had access to a sefer torah for fast days, which would draw a huge crowd.
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